Syrian refugees struggle to cope and seek child marriage as a solution

Posted on | augustus 14, 2012 | 7 Comments

Recent concerns have sparked as child marriages spike among Syrian refugees in Jordan. Difficult conditions in Jordan have many parents pushing to have their daughters married at an earlier age. The issue has created a concern among many international aid organizations that the rise in child marriage has been brought on as a sort of coping mechanism to adjusting to life as a refugee in the country. The majority of these young girls are in their early teens and are increasingly being married to older Syrian men as a form of financial and other security against a backdrop of conflict and instability. Early marriage is against the laws of both Syria (minimum age of marriage at 17 for boys and 16 for girls) and Jordan. However, in Syria, religious leaders may still approve “informal marriages” at for girls from 13 years-old and for boys from 16 years-old. The “informal marriages” allows spouses to live in the same home and have children, but is only legally registered once both turn 18. In Jordan the legal minimum age for marriage is 18-years-old for both spouses, though in exceptional circumstances marriages involving 15-year-olds are allowed — it is illegal for anyone under 15 to get married. Hana Ghadban, a volunteer with the Syrian Women Association (SWA), told IRIN that in the Syrian cities of Homs and Dera’a many girls are married at the age of 13 or 14. “We know of so many girls who got married after moving to Jordan. Most of them were engaged in Syria.”

Violence against children in Syria is also a motivator of many parents to seek early marriage for young girls;

“They rape girls who are as young as her in Syria now. If they raped a nine-year-old girl, they can do anything. I will not feel OK if I do not see her married to a decent man who can protect her,” said the father of Hanadi, a pregnant child bride in Jordan aged 14.

In March of this year, the United Nations human rights chief, Navi Pillay, stated in an interview that security forces in Syria are systematically detaining and torturing children with the approval or complicity of President Bashar Assad. “They’ve gone for the children, for whatever purpose, in large numbers, hundreds detained and tortured,” she said. “It’s just horrendous, children shot in the knees, held together with adults, in really inhumane conditions, denied medical treatment for their injuries, either held as hostages, or held as sources of information” (BBC). The statement by Pillay came following a report the previous month which stated that there were at least 400 child deaths this year alone — some as young as 10 being held in solitary confinement. Many families also reported levels of systematic rape against young girls and women both in Syria and refugee camps in bordering countries such as Iraq.

Regardless of the reasons for parents and families to seek early marriage for their children, it is not an escape, but a sentence. A girl who is married young is at a greater risk of abuse, which in extreme instances can result in death. Girls who marry young consequently give birth young, and therefore have an increased risk for complications or even death in childbirth. Child brides are also more likely to be voiceless in their marriage, regarding most, if not all, major decisions. Child brides are also less likely to compete their education, maintain social circles, In the developing world, it is estimated that one-third of girls are married as children. Child marriage violate the rights of the child in many ways, but the most concerning violation is a girls right to consent, and this right is continually violated through the life of the marriage for most girls.

It is estimated that 10 million girls a year worldwide are victims of child marriage; therefore, this spike in child marriages by refugees must not be taken lightly. Syrian refugee communites must be educated on the true effects of child marriage, and education must be made available for girls. Additionally the fight against gender discrimination must be put on the forefront of the agenda in order to see an end to the cycle of abuse and poverty that fuels child marriages. States must ensure that individual communities are adequately educated on the long-term effects of child marriage gender discrimination, and see that sustainable solutions are then put in place. Such solutions include, making education a priority and ensuring that girls have equal access to it, seeing that families have alternative ways to pay debts (so that girls are not used as an viable option), and providing health education on HIV/AIDS and other diseases.

AUTHOR: Cassandra Clifford
URL: www.bridgetofreedomfoundation.org and http://children.foreignpolicyblogs.com
E-MAIL: Cassandra [at] btff.org

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7 Responses to “Syrian refugees struggle to cope and seek child marriage as a solution”

Linda
september 8th, 2012 @ 00:10

How can you sleep at night, do you guys take the truth & turn it upside down. These girls are being raped in the refugees camps, sold to the highest bidder. You’re excusing the criminals who are abusing Syrians, you’re encouraging pedophilia by your lies. As a Syrian I am appalled by this fictional piece.
Juana
september 8th, 2012 @ 00:36

What a propaganda article to end all propaganda articles. If anyone interested in the truth & the situations Syrians are facing in refugee camps read this: http://witnesshr.blogspot.co.uk/2012/09/arab-pedophiles-rush-to-marry-underage_4.html#!/2012/09/arab-pedophiles-rush-to-marry-underage_4.html & this http://www.albawaba.com/editorchoice/syrian-refugees-wives-weddings-440597
Carol
september 8th, 2012 @ 00:43

What is it that you hate most, so we can blame Assad for it? To end the uprising Assad is throwing 100s of children in jail!!! One gotta be high to even contemplate some of those stuff! Really guys be more creative.
brian
september 8th, 2012 @ 01:07

what a bizarre posting…is this an attempt to justify what is usualy illegal?
brian
september 8th, 2012 @ 01:10

why do you post barefaced lies: like this:
‘In March of this year, the United Nations human rights chief, Navi Pillay, stated in an interview that security forces in Syria are systematically detaining and torturing children with the approval or complicity of President Bashar Assad. “They’ve gone for the children, for whatever purpose, in large numbers, hundreds detained and tortured,” she said.
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NOW if Assad were doing this we’d not see syrians in their millions support president Assad! s why are you and Pillai lying?
brian
september 8th, 2012 @ 01:13

here is what syrians think of President Assad:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Wh0ecbxkj1s
and
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6ZIcEFCV62I&feature=relmfu

would a child rapist get such support?
brian
september 8th, 2012 @ 04:24

FSA mercenary Terrorist kill Syrian family in Homs daughter tells the tragic story
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NZjEAYrZbOE

this is the work of the FSA and of FUKUSA saudi israeli qatar turkey regimes who fund back arm and support the terrorists